Sunday, December 7, 2008

10 things ffective people.do

Effective people:
1.Believe there is no such thing as perfection.
2.Believe the basic intention of life, the universe, people, etc, is relatively
good Everyone always 3.believe that they are right and that are doing good, from their own perspective.
4.Seek only obtaining a
result, a decision, a change, not to win or lose.
5.Believe there is no failure or success, only
feedback, knowledge.
6.Act with
integrity and honesty.
7.
Do something else, or stop doing nothing, if things are not to their preference.
8.View ideas and thoughts from
various viewpoints.
9.Have a clear idea of
objectives.
10.Believe
mind and Body are part of the same system

Monday, December 1, 2008

habit 2 summary

When we begin with the end in mind, we have a personal direction to guide our daily activities, without which we will accomplish little toward our own goals. Beginning with the end in mind is part of the process of personal leadership, taking control of our own lives.
All things are created twice. We create them first in our minds, and then we work to bring them into physical existence. By taking control of our own first creation, we can write or re-write our own scripts, thus taking some control and responsibility for the outcome. We write or re-write our scripts using our imagination and conscience.
There are three major aspects of our personal and business management. First is leadership - what do I/we want to accomplish? Second is management - how can I best accomplish it? Third is productivity - doing it. According to Peter Drucker and Warren Bennis, "Management is doing things right; Leadership is doing the right things."
We must reexamine the center of our life. Our center is the source of our security, guidance, wisdom and power. Making people or things outside ourselves important places ourselves at the mercy of mood swings, inconsistent behavior and uncontrollable changes of fortune. Being self-centered is too limiting - people develop poor mental health in isolation.
By centering our lives on correct principles, we create a stable, solid foundation for the development of our life support factors and embrace and encompass the truly important areas of our lives. Successful relationships, achievement and financial security will radiate from the principle center.
In developing your personal mission statement, you can use your creative ability to imagine life milestones such as birthdays, anniversaries, retirement and funerals. What accomplishments would you like to celebrate? Visualize them in rich detail.
You can make your mission statement balanced and easier to work with by breaking it down into the specific role areas of your life and the goals you want to accomplish in each area. Affirmation and visualization are both self programming techniques that should be used in harmony with correct principles.
Mission statements can also be made for families, service groups and organizations of all kinds.
A family mission statement is an expression of its true foundation, its shared vision and values.
Organizational mission statements should be developed by everyone in the organization. If there is no involvement in the process, there will be no commitment to the statement. The reward system must compliment and strengthen the stated value systems.